TV Star Spills on Intimidating First Meeting With Bill Clinton

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The actor’s wife-to-be had an Arkansas connection with the Clintons.

U.S. President Bill Clinton listens to speeches on stage at the Odyssey Centre in Belfast during Clinton's visit to Northern Ireland December 13, 2000.
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Cheers star Ted Danson has recalled being grilled by his new girlfriend’s close friend, then-President Bill Clinton.

Danson, 78, met Mary Steenburgen, 73, when they starred together in 1993’s Pontiac Moon. They married two years later and their relationship remains a Hollywood success story.

While moderating a panel with Bill, 79, and Hillary Clinton, 78, on Saturday, Danson said his wife had been close with both Clintons “since the early days.”

Ted Danson and President Bill Clinton attend OCEANA 2019 NY Event Gala Honoring Diane Lane and Simon Sidamon-Eristoff at The Rainbow Room on September 10, 2019 in New York City.
Ted Danson and former President Bill Clinton in 2019. Sean Zanni/Patrick McMullan via Getty Image

Their friendship blossomed in the late ’70s when Clinton was the governor of Arkansas, where Steenburgen grew up. Steenburgen’s father met Clinton, who introduced him to his daughter, and she soon became friends with both Clintons.

Danson then shared a story of meeting the first couple in the 1990s after becoming serious with Steenburgen.

“One of the first things she did was take me to meet her dear friends in the White House,” Danson told the audience at History Talks in Philadelphia, according to Variety.

“Bill—Mr. President—took me around the corner, and there were three Secret Service agents behind him, all of them looking at me. The president asked me what my intentions were.”

While on the panel on Saturday, Danson asked Clinton, “My first question is to you, Mr. President: Do you think that was fair?”

Former U.S. President Bill Clinton and Ted Danson attend the Oceana New York Gala at Blue Hill at Stone Barns on September 13, 2017 in Tarrytown, New York.
Former U.S. President Bill Clinton and Ted Danson at an environmental event in 2017. Sean Zanni/Paul Bruinooge/Patrick McMullan

The former president replied, “No, but it was effective. And I didn’t think I had to be fair. As it turned out, you became the best thing that ever happened to her.”

Danson shared a version of the story back in 2014, saying it was a “come-meet-my-friend’s-date-for-approval kinda moment.”

“(I’m) in the White House you know with some Secret Service behind checking me out, so it was a smidge intimidating, except they’re so sweet.”

Clinton walked Steenburgen down the aisle at her October 1995 wedding to Danson at Martha’s Vineyard, Massachusetts.

Ted Danson and his wife, Mary Steenburgen, attend the Golden Eve event ahead of the 83rd Annual Golden Globes to honour Cecil B. DeMille Award recipient Helen Mirren and Carol Burnett Award recipient Sarah Jessica Parker in Beverly Hills, California, U.S., January 6, 2026.
Ted Danson and Mary Steenburgen in 2026. Mario Anzuoni/REUTERS

“They were best friends and, I mean, he gave her away at our wedding,” Danson said in 2013. “It’s hard to believe still to me sometimes how close we all are, because it sounds kind of pretentious, but they are best friends—I mean, I watched her give him a ‘noogie’ in The Oval Office.”

Danson and Steenburgen have lectured at the Clinton School of Public Service and they publicly supported Hillary Clinton’s presidential campaign in 2008.

Steenburgen praised Hillary during a speech at the Democratic National Convention in 2016.

Democratic presidential hopeful US Sen. Hillary Clinton (L) (D-NY) stands with actors Ted Danson (C) and  Mary Steenburgen (R) before speaking at a fundraiser event February 1, 2008 at the Orpheum Theatre in San Francisco, California.
Democratic presidential hopeful US Sen. Hillary Clinton (L) (D-NY) stands with actors Ted Danson (C) and Mary Steenburgen (R) before speaking at a fundraiser event February 1, 2008 at the Orpheum Theatre in San Francisco, California. Justin Sullivan/Getty Images

“I’ve been blessed to call Hillary Clinton one of my closest friends since 1978,” Steenburgen said.

“That is a whole lot of life. How would I describe her? Loves to laugh, especially at herself. World class listener. Quick to forgive. Sensitive. Empathetic. But like her mother, Dorothy, if she gets knocked down seven times, she will get up eight.”

Recalling Clinton’s loss to Trump in 2016 in an interview two years later, Danson said it was hard to watch from up close.

“It’s difficult to put distance and spin on my emotions. We were there that night and it was a slow-motion–from my perspective–car wreck. It was beyond belief," he said.

Actors Ted Danson and his wife Mary Steenburgen in 1996.
Actors Ted Danson and his wife Mary Steenburgen in 1996. Ho New/Reuters

“I will put spin on it: it is what it is, and here we are. A lot of what I believe in is not what this administration believes in.”

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